STOP IT NOW!!!
For most guys, masturbation is a fun and healthy activity. But for a handful of men, it can be a huge problem. I know most guys would have wondered at one point whether they masturbate too often, but the truth is, there is no rule for how often you should masturbate. Actually, your masturbating pose a problem when it starts interfering with your daily life
However often you masturbate, it’s not a problem until it starts affecting your life in negative ways.
Here are four signs that you need to know its time to stop masturbating
1.WHEN YOU HURT YOURSELF
Some guys masturbate so often that they actually injure themselves although these injuries could be mild (e.g., skin chafing) or scar tissue buildup in the shaft of your penis that can result from using too much pressure while stroking
This may sound obvious, but if you’re masturbating so often that you're hurting yourself, you need to cut your boner some slack
2. YOUR DAILY LIFE SUFFERS.
If you now prefer to stay in on Friday nights instead of meeting up with friends, you now prefer your closet to night out with the guys or you’ve been late to meetings because you were giving yourself a hand in the men’s room.
Either way, if you find that your masturbation habits are interfering with your social life, your job, or your desire to have sex with your partner, then it’s time to adjust that habit
3.YOU RUIN ACTUAL SEX WITH REAL LIFE PARTNERS
Some guys who masturbate a lot use one specific type of stimuli i.e certain categories of porn coupled with specific hand movements. When it comes time for them to actually have sex, they find that they can’t recreate the same type of excitement
Basically, if you watch the same porn or use the same hand motions every time you masturbate, it teaches your brain and body to get off that way and that way alone. If you're having sex with a real life partner, this could cause serious problems, both in terms of keeping it up and getting erect in the first place. “If that happens, fire is surely on the mountain and it needs to be quenched fast!!!
4.ITS ALWAYS POPPING UP IN YOUR THOUGHTS
You wake up wanting to masturbate. At lunch, your mind wanders to your favorite porn scene. You cant sleep at night without wanking off
If any of this sounds familiar, and you often find yourself distracted by thoughts of when or how you’re going to wank next, that’s a strong indication there's a problem which needs to fixed fast.
In conclusion, there’s nothing necessarily unhealthy or problematic with masturbating but if it becomes detrimental to your life, then you need to treat it like you would to any other harmful habit
That means adopting a harm reduction approach by setting limits for yourself for example, making a rule to only masturbate at night.
Set rules for yourself and see if you can adhere to them. If you can't, and you find yourself slipping back into harmful old habits, get a new hobby , hangout more with friends and consider talking to a therapist, as there might be a deeper psychological issue at play.
Finally indulging in a little self-love every now and then is fine. It's only when it gets in the way of your actual life or your actual sex life then it becomes a problem.
Don’t forget to follow me on my social media platforms Instagram "creamie_ebony" Twitter "creamie__ebony" also, do not forget to drop your thoughts on this
However often you masturbate, it’s not a problem until it starts affecting your life in negative ways.
Here are four signs that you need to know its time to stop masturbating
1.WHEN YOU HURT YOURSELF
Some guys masturbate so often that they actually injure themselves although these injuries could be mild (e.g., skin chafing) or scar tissue buildup in the shaft of your penis that can result from using too much pressure while stroking
This may sound obvious, but if you’re masturbating so often that you're hurting yourself, you need to cut your boner some slack
2. YOUR DAILY LIFE SUFFERS.
If you now prefer to stay in on Friday nights instead of meeting up with friends, you now prefer your closet to night out with the guys or you’ve been late to meetings because you were giving yourself a hand in the men’s room.
Either way, if you find that your masturbation habits are interfering with your social life, your job, or your desire to have sex with your partner, then it’s time to adjust that habit
3.YOU RUIN ACTUAL SEX WITH REAL LIFE PARTNERS
Some guys who masturbate a lot use one specific type of stimuli i.e certain categories of porn coupled with specific hand movements. When it comes time for them to actually have sex, they find that they can’t recreate the same type of excitement
Basically, if you watch the same porn or use the same hand motions every time you masturbate, it teaches your brain and body to get off that way and that way alone. If you're having sex with a real life partner, this could cause serious problems, both in terms of keeping it up and getting erect in the first place. “If that happens, fire is surely on the mountain and it needs to be quenched fast!!!
4.ITS ALWAYS POPPING UP IN YOUR THOUGHTS
You wake up wanting to masturbate. At lunch, your mind wanders to your favorite porn scene. You cant sleep at night without wanking off
If any of this sounds familiar, and you often find yourself distracted by thoughts of when or how you’re going to wank next, that’s a strong indication there's a problem which needs to fixed fast.
In conclusion, there’s nothing necessarily unhealthy or problematic with masturbating but if it becomes detrimental to your life, then you need to treat it like you would to any other harmful habit
That means adopting a harm reduction approach by setting limits for yourself for example, making a rule to only masturbate at night.
Set rules for yourself and see if you can adhere to them. If you can't, and you find yourself slipping back into harmful old habits, get a new hobby , hangout more with friends and consider talking to a therapist, as there might be a deeper psychological issue at play.
Finally indulging in a little self-love every now and then is fine. It's only when it gets in the way of your actual life or your actual sex life then it becomes a problem.
Don’t forget to follow me on my social media platforms Instagram "creamie_ebony" Twitter "creamie__ebony" also, do not forget to drop your thoughts on this
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