WHY WOMEN CHEAT
Women are much more likely to be interested in sex that includes some sort of emotional connection.
Of course, the need for emotional connection is only one among many reasons that women cheat though it is often paramount. Other reasons include:
1. THEY ARE COMBATING LOW SELF-ESTEEM.
In a case like this, women tend to seek external validation through romantic and sexual intrigue. If they are wanted romantically and sexually, they feel worthwhile, desirable, or needed
2.THEY HAVE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS ABOUT WHAT THEIR PRIMARY PARTNER SHOULD PROVIDE.
They think their significant other should fulfill their every whim and desire, 24/7/365. When this expectation is not met, they seek external satisfaction
3. THEY WANT SOME EXTRA BUZZ IN THEIR LIFE.
They miss the neurochemical rush of meeting someone new, flirting with that person, and being sexual for the first time. They find their present relationship predictable and maybe a tiny bit boring, so they grab some excitement elsewhere.
4. THEY’RE UNHAPPY IN THEIR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP.
There may be a lack of intimacy, emotional connection may be missing in the relationships, there may be a lack of sex for a lot of reasons, their partner might not be around enough to satisfy their physical and emotional needs, or things might just be falling apart as relationships sometimes do. In such cases, they might cheat to see if there is something better out there or to line up someone new before they end their current relationship.
5. THEY FEEL NEGLECTED AND LONELY AT HOME.
Typically, such women feel more like a nanny, a maid, a mother, or a financial provider than an equal and valued life partner. As such, they use romance and sex outside their primary relationship to fill the emotional void.
6. THEY’RE ANGRY AND WANTS TO RETALIATE.
Usually, these women act out in response to a betrayal by their partner. Their partners may have cheated, or spent money without asking for their opinion, or made an important life decision without including them in the process. Out of anger, these women might seek extracurricular sex and they usually don’t try to hide it.
7. THEY LACK FEMALE SOCIAL SUPPORT.
We females tend to withdraw into our shell whenever we are going through certain trauma, much more than men, women need same-gender social support. Sometimes women, especially those who experienced maternal abuse or neglect, undervalue this need. And they simultaneously overvalue the attention of men. This may lead to cheating.
8. THEY’RE ADDICTED.
Sometimes women have an issue with alcohol or drugs, and these substances affect their decision making, leading to impulsive sexual decisions. Other times they are sexually and/or romantically addicted, using sex and romance compulsively as ways to escape unwanted feelings.
That said, there is always another option, cheating does not have to be the answer
Alternative choices include: talking about feelings with close female friends, sharing in therapy, find a new hobby and develop it, going to couples counseling as a way to improve the relationship, and, most importantly, simply being honest with a significant other about what's going on
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Women are much more likely to be interested in sex that includes some sort of emotional connection.
Of course, the need for emotional connection is only one among many reasons that women cheat though it is often paramount. Other reasons include:
1. THEY ARE COMBATING LOW SELF-ESTEEM.
In a case like this, women tend to seek external validation through romantic and sexual intrigue. If they are wanted romantically and sexually, they feel worthwhile, desirable, or needed
2.THEY HAVE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS ABOUT WHAT THEIR PRIMARY PARTNER SHOULD PROVIDE.
They think their significant other should fulfill their every whim and desire, 24/7/365. When this expectation is not met, they seek external satisfaction
3. THEY WANT SOME EXTRA BUZZ IN THEIR LIFE.
They miss the neurochemical rush of meeting someone new, flirting with that person, and being sexual for the first time. They find their present relationship predictable and maybe a tiny bit boring, so they grab some excitement elsewhere.
4. THEY’RE UNHAPPY IN THEIR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP.
There may be a lack of intimacy, emotional connection may be missing in the relationships, there may be a lack of sex for a lot of reasons, their partner might not be around enough to satisfy their physical and emotional needs, or things might just be falling apart as relationships sometimes do. In such cases, they might cheat to see if there is something better out there or to line up someone new before they end their current relationship.
5. THEY FEEL NEGLECTED AND LONELY AT HOME.
Typically, such women feel more like a nanny, a maid, a mother, or a financial provider than an equal and valued life partner. As such, they use romance and sex outside their primary relationship to fill the emotional void.
6. THEY’RE ANGRY AND WANTS TO RETALIATE.
Usually, these women act out in response to a betrayal by their partner. Their partners may have cheated, or spent money without asking for their opinion, or made an important life decision without including them in the process. Out of anger, these women might seek extracurricular sex and they usually don’t try to hide it.
7. THEY LACK FEMALE SOCIAL SUPPORT.
We females tend to withdraw into our shell whenever we are going through certain trauma, much more than men, women need same-gender social support. Sometimes women, especially those who experienced maternal abuse or neglect, undervalue this need. And they simultaneously overvalue the attention of men. This may lead to cheating.
8. THEY’RE ADDICTED.
Sometimes women have an issue with alcohol or drugs, and these substances affect their decision making, leading to impulsive sexual decisions. Other times they are sexually and/or romantically addicted, using sex and romance compulsively as ways to escape unwanted feelings.
That said, there is always another option, cheating does not have to be the answer
Alternative choices include: talking about feelings with close female friends, sharing in therapy, find a new hobby and develop it, going to couples counseling as a way to improve the relationship, and, most importantly, simply being honest with a significant other about what's going on
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